revealing the book writing process


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Hello there,

Lately, several folks asked me about the steps involved in writing a book. In case you're wondering, I'll share a short story below.

Arvashni had a story she needed to tell. When I first spoke with her, she said: “I can't even write a long email."

That's normal!

To navigate around that, we used my Clarify-Storify-Amplify process.

Clarify

Her story was rooted in her family’s history as part of the Indian diaspora in South Africa. Working collaboratively, we turned threads of ideas into a compelling historical novel.

Through regular conversations, visual mapping, and character development exercises, Arvashni found her voice and her story’s structure.

Once she had that clarity, the words could flow.

“At the time I met you, the biggest challenge I had was translating a whole lot of ideas in my head into a story on paper,” she said.

Storify

Deborah helped her shift the project from a short story collection to a full-length novel by focusing on character evolution.

“You asked me how I wanted the characters to evolve…That was particularly helpful in framing out the characters,” said Arvashni.

The collaborative process was key.

“Every time we got together, we advanced the novel so significantly,” she said. “You held my hand every step of the way.”

Amplify

Arvashni finished writing her book, and Deborah edited it.

The Story I Told Myself was published, and Arvashni promoted her book through events in South Africa and New York.

Warmly,
Deb Ager

PS: When you’re ready:

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The Zing with Deborah Ager

The Zing is a curated weekly newsletter for sophisticated writers navigating the self-publishing journey. Get bite-sized essays, swoon-worthy strategies, and practical how-to guidance from an author and writing publication coach. Whether you're dreaming of writing a book or have already drafted yours, join a circle of high-caliber authors who deserve encouragement, guidance, and kindness on the path to publication. Bonus: Goofy jokes occasionally included.

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